Additional Thoughts on Sodomy

I'm masochistic. I enjoy being humiliated. I like to be treated with disdain. It's satisfying to me to be unmanned, to have my masculinity denied or even ridiculed, or to be feminized. I find pleasure, too, in giving pleasure to another, even when it is at my own physical and emotional expense. Docile and compliant, I would, if it were not for sexually transmitted diseases, gladly offer my ass to any man or woman anywhere, at any time, considering it an honor and a privilege to be fucked or spanked or both. I love to surrender and to submit.

There is something taboo about anal intercourse, often even among the devotees of the act. There is the perception that not only is the act forbidden, but that it is also somehow "dirty," possibly because it involves not only an organ of urination but also a system for defecation. From our earliest days, we are taught that the asshole is "dirty," just as it (and the penis and vagina) is one of our "private" parts.

Initially, at least, anal intercourse is apt to seem forbidden and unclean, both physically and spiritually. Even when one becomes accustomed to fucking someone else in his or her ass or to being fucked in the ass by someone else, the sense that the act is somehow impermissible and wrong may well persist at an unconscious level. For this reason alone, anal intercourse is exciting, because it is always thrilling to break the rules.

There is also a sense that the penetrated party is being invaded by the penetrating participant. The anus is (or can be) resistant to the penis' advance. It is, after all, a relatively snug orifice, intended for excretion, not penetration. Even a well-lubricated asshole requires the penetrating party to use some measure of force to shove his or her penis or strap-on dildo through the defiant sphincter, and both the penetrating and the penetrated participants in anal intercourse are apt to feel this resistance and this force as invasive. Moreover, once the penis has penetrated the anus, its presence is likely to be discerned as an occupation of the penetrated party's bowels, since the organ is, as it were, a foreign object.