Trying It On For Size

During most of my life, I am a confident, assertive, heterosexual male. In the bedroom, I almost always take the lead and drive the action. The sex itself is usually of the purely "vanilla" variety. In my fantasy life, I am a sexual submissive, completely subordinate to a dominant but highly sensual female. My preferences in that part of my life run to moderate bondage, including CB bondage, intimate body worship and strap-on training.

In the last five years, I have satisfied and exhausted those fantasy desires by visiting a local Domme during those critical times for a one to two hour session. The sessions with her have been wonderful. She is sensual to the max, highly skilled in the use of a strap-on and loves to have me orally service her. Moreover, she is very flexible and has no agenda of her own. Most sessions were scheduled by me with an e-mail describing generally what I wanted to do and what toys I would enjoy playing with. She had no problem with my bringing many of the toys and devices from my own extensive collection. She was very health conscious which is of utmost importance to me. I certainly did not want to acquire any sort of disease, of the sexually transmitted kind or otherwise. And she believes in the code of "safe, sane and consensual" in all BDSM activities. We always use a safeword - "yellow" for slow down or ease up and "red" for stop whatever is being done.

So, with this great Domme, what brought me down this road to a transsexual experience? I guess it began a couple of years ago when I came across an old photo set on the internet. The set featured one of the earliest transsexual porn stars, a gal that went by the name of "Carnal Candy." Her claim to fame was she was among the first of the "Dominant Shemales," not only topping her male partners but dominating them. Dressed in black, Domme regalia, she often used a leash or necktie to dominate and control her male sub. The power exchange was as important as the sex, in fact each built on and enhanced the effect of the other.